THOSE BORN ON 31 MAY...

You are ruled by the planet Uranus, with strong a influence of Mercury (the Gemini ruler), and you are ruled by the number 4, so your tarot card is the Emperor.

People born on this day tend to convey an image of being cool or tough, but underneath you are actually quite venerable, sentimental and soft-hearted. Usually straight shooters, more than capable, adaptable and versatile and of course attention seeking... sorry but even if you don't think you are, trust me you are, you are a Gemini are you not?!

Since success is a natural born conclusion for you, unfortunately this means when failure happens, you are so ill prepared for it, that you take it very badly. You're sensitive soul does not understand how it could have happened and you will beat yourself up with the reasons that led to it... and usually you will lay the majority of the blame with yourself, even if other's were also to blame. Fortunately, your rational side will eventually force you to accept what has happened, and you will move on from the bad experience and learn from it.

You can be aggressive, but with time you learn how to channel this aggression as to not allow yourself to wast time and energy un-necessarily. However, you are argumentative, and this is not something you find so easy to curb, particularly when you know you're right... which is usually most of the time in your opinion. This means you can be stubborn to the point of being repetitive in your argument, but those whom know you best, know you are not being deliberating malicious (well... not all the time), you are simply frustrated that those around you cannot see how obvious the answer is!

You also have an extreme side to your personality, meaning you are susceptible like most Gemini's to alcohol and substance abuse, the good news is these vices can be overcome but only when enough evidence has been presented and proved, to you that such excessive living is actually doing you more harm than good. So you can change, but you will never commit yourself to permanent change. This means you will always have an urge to be tempted back... and in fact, you will even make a deal with yourself to return back to your wilder ways one day in the future! Why... well because firstly for a Gemini the word no is not something that sits easy with us, and secondly you will want to test yourself to see if you can actually beat yourself at your own game!

You are someone who believes in fighting for those less fortunate, and you will stand united for the cause, this is because you have to somehow justify your own success, and being as your Gemini what better person to verbally express the needs of others.

Sexually and emotionally you are drawn like a magnet to those who are passionate and creative as well as those whom you believe need protecting. The only problem a Gemini has is remaining emotionally involved enough to actually go onto the next step. Relationships are wanted, needed and sought, but commitment is difficult for a Gemini, not because they don't want too, but because they don't know how to remain in love with another person without sooner or later feeling trapped. But hey, when we are in love it's a wonderful world, and you are guaranteed, we will take you to the mother f***ing stars... and back!

Positive traits: Self-assured, confidant, capable, adaptable, sexual, passionate.
Negative traits: Restless, escapist, extreme, stubborn, insecure.